The Kingston, Massachusetts community and the family of Carmela’s Restaurant are mourning the loss of Diane Murphy, a beloved bartender, friend, and cherished cornerstone of the Carmela’s team. Diane’s passing has left a profound void, as she was not only a skilled professional but also a warm, vibrant presence whose influence extended far beyond the bar.
Diane joined Carmela’s 18 years ago, quickly becoming more than just a bartender—she was the heart and soul of the restaurant. Over nearly two decades, she built lasting relationships with patrons, colleagues, and newcomers alike, fostering a welcoming and inclusive atmosphere that made everyone feel valued and appreciated. Her laughter, energy, and outgoing personality were constants, turning ordinary nights into memorable experiences for countless guests.
Known for her talent behind the bar, Diane’s signature cocktails were enjoyed by many, but it was her genuine care, humor, and mentorship that left the deepest impression. New hires often looked to her for guidance, learning not just about mixology but about the culture of kindness, hospitality, and teamwork that Diane embodied so effortlessly. Her dedication ensured that Carmela’s remained more than a restaurant—it was a community hub where friendships flourished and connections endured.
Throughout her tenure, Diane faced challenges with resilience and grace, including the devastating fire that threatened to close Carmela’s and the uncertainty of the COVID-19 pandemic. Through it all, she remained a steadfast presence, greeting everyone with a smile and bringing warmth and positivity even in the toughest times. Her strength, kindness, and unwavering dedication became a model for everyone around her.
Friends, family, coworkers, and patrons remember Diane Murphy for the joy she brought into their lives, the laughter she shared, and the countless small gestures that made a big difference. She leaves behind a legacy of compassion, camaraderie, and vibrancy that will continue to inspire those who were fortunate enough to know her.
As the community and her Carmela’s family grieve, Diane’s memory lives on in the stories told, the laughter remembered, and the lives she touched so deeply. Diane Murphy’s spirit, generosity, and warmth will never be forgotten, and she will be profoundly missed by all who had the privilege of calling her a friend, mentor, or colleague.







